When going out on a first date-type thing with a person who has, rather effectively, managed to charm the, um, pants off you over the preceding week to ten days, you should maybe ask a few well placed questions when he's sharing a song from his iPod whereby you can glean sufficient enough information to come to a conclusion on how this person feels about said song and music in general, i.e. if he is a person who is, quote unquote INTO music and maybe not just someone who sort of likes music, hey didn't Dave Matthews Band used to be good, like in college, I really loved Crash, and that maybe, if that person is into music and is trying to share something with you and you know, you kind of like that person but not just like them but LIKE LIKE them that maybe you should, you know, listen to the song he's trying to play for you maybe and not just start screaming about your new! favorite! song! to workout to and then assualt him with Adam Lambert.